March 31, 2026
Sharlene Massie

Burnout in Students, Grads, and Newcomers

A note to students, grads, and newcomers building life in Alberta.

I said something out loud in front of my team that I regret. I said I need six months off to go to Mexico and relax on a beach. I shouldn’t have said that, but I was tired and overwhelmed.

I’ve been in my career for years and I still hit that wall. So when I see 18-, 22-, 25-year-olds already exhausted, that’s not a motivation problem. That’s burnout starting early.

You’re Carrying More Than People Realize

If you’re a student or recent grad right now, your plate probably looks like this:

  • School or upgrading

  • Part-time or full-time work

  • Applying for jobs constantly

  • Trying to afford rent

  • Helping family

  • Sending money home

  • Navigating a new country

  • Building credit

  • Learning Canadian workplace culture

  • Comparing yourself to everyone on social media

That’s not just starting out. That’s a lot, especially if you’re new to Alberta and trying to prove yourself.

Burnout in Students, Grads, and Newcomers Doesn’t Always Look Dramatic

It can look like:

  • Sleeping but still tired

  • Doom-scrolling instead of studying

  • Missing deadlines because your brain feels full

  • Thinking maybe I’m just not cut out for this

  • Feeling behind everyone else

  • Smiling in interviews but feeling numb inside

Burnout isn’t weakness. It’s stress with no recovery.

The Hustle Culture Lie

Somewhere along the way, you were told:

  • Work harder

  • Say yes to everything

  • Take every shift

  • Build your resume nonstop

  • Sleep later

But here’s what no one says:

If you burn out at 22, you don’t win anything. You just start your adult life exhausted.

And if you’re a newcomer, the pressure can double. You might feel like you can’t slow down. Like you have to succeed fast. Like you owe it to your family.

That pressure is real. But your energy is not unlimited.

Quick Check: Are You Running on Empty?

Be honest:

  • When was the last time you rested without guilt?

  • Are you always in prove myself mode?

  • Do you feel anxious even when nothing is urgent?

  • Are you afraid to say no to work or school because you might lose opportunity?

That’s not laziness. That’s overload.

Here’s What Balance Actually Looks Like

Not perfect time management. Not having it all figured out.

Balance looks like:

  • Taking one shift less if you can

  • Saying no to something that doesn’t align

  • Asking questions instead of pretending you know everything

  • Booking the appointment

  • Sleeping 8 hours

  • Not answering emails at midnight

  • Giving yourself permission to be new

You are allowed to be learning. You are allowed to grow at a sustainable pace.

From Someone Who’s Been There

When I said I needed six months of vacation, I didn’t actually need six months. I needed a reset. I needed rest before resentment.

Here’s what I know now after years of working with young professionals across Alberta: The people who build strong careers aren’t the ones who grind the hardest. They’re the ones who protect their energy, especially at the beginning.

I left shortly after I said that out loud, for one week in an all-inclusive in Mexico, and it was all I actually needed.

You probably don’t need Mexico. But you might need to stop pushing like you’re behind. You’re not behind. You’re building. And building takes energy. Protect it.

Burnout can be short term if you recognize it and move forward.

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